I'm in the angry stage.
You know the one.
Nobody says anything right. You feel your life can get no worse. You hate everything you see and feel.
The angry stage.
I know in my mind this is part of the process. Woe is me.
It fucking sucks.
I'm pissed off.
Not at anything. I'm just in a really bad mood.
I don't hate work. I love it. But today, it is my worst enemy.
All I want is my mommy.
God, I'm pathetic.
Anybody know the next phase?
7 comments:
I think each person deals with loss differently, Berle. But the important thing is to let yourself feel the loss, and to talk about what you're feeling. It just takes time...
I love you, Berly :)
Kat beat me to it.
You're getting there sister. Just take your time and allow yourself to go through the different phases. It will be okay. YOU will be okay.
As everyone has been saying, most of us have to go through this in our own way. But whatever your stages are, you have to allow yourself to go through each of them and feel them fully, lest you try to be stronger than you feel and leave stuff bottled up. That stuff always has a tendency to come back to bite you by exploding at the worse time.
Here's sending you some good vibes, hoping your next stages are easier to cope with.
{{{huggers}}}
-N
I know how you feel. i feel the same way right now. howerver i dont think it will ever end! for me that is!
I would have to say the "numbingness" effect will hit next. Then the part of moving on. That's how I do it.
...sigh....I agree with Kaite. I feel like that all the time.
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